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Yes to this and all the comments. I started noticing this in NYC about 15 years ago, around the time of the rise of Instagram. Sooo much hype and marketing not just for restaurants but all consumer goods and the rise of mid really began - and people believe the hype and “fine” was not just “good enough” but became “amazing.” For all the reasons you describe plus another - I don’t think many people want to admit, after they’ve spent a fair amount of money on something, that they didn’t love it. Restaurants, theatre, trips, products, whatever. The hype and/or they haven’t lived through the good stuff. Luckily I’m a competent home cook and I way prefer something simple at home than a $100 “fine” meal. They’ll survive without me! I stick to my short list of low-hype reasonably priced places that are consistently yummy on the rare occasion that I eat out.

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Dear Lindsey and Christine, thank you~ I found this to be an excellent read and a subject with which I have experience.

As a chef, and occasionally a consulting chef (especially during the COVID period), I have observed that numerous food establishments lack an Advisory Board (AB) that goes beyond just family and friends. An AB that includes a diverse representation from the community can provide more valuable feedback. Many chefs tend to offer limited critiques of their friends' new restaurants, possibly to avoid offending them or simply out of pride for their friends' new endeavors. We often do not have the time or the luxury to dine out frequently. So, we (at least I) appreciate experienced diners like yourselves for more in-depth reviews. I concur that many talented and skilled individuals—chefs, front-of-house staff, and sommeliers—have done an admirable job in launching new restaurants. However, the other aspects you both mentioned, such as lighting, music, and atmosphere, have sometimes been lacking in their overall approach. We, as professionals in the industry, need to delve deeper than mere consistency. We must create an environment that is restorative, ensuring that diners leave with a desire to return. It is crucial for diners to understand the essence of a restaurant and even a little bit of "je ne sais quoi" that compels one to return time and time again. I believe it is important for new establishments to clearly communicate who they are and what they aim to achieve within their community from the outset. Ambiguity breeds confusion, and confusion leads to hesitation. I subscribe to the old adage regarding the elevator pitch when it comes to describing or recommending a restaurant: keep it concise, specify the type, what it offers, and what makes it memorable.

As a chef, when I hear the term 'fine' coming back to the kitchen, it translates to me as satisfactory or neutral. Such diners are not motivated to return. In a small community, these establishments will quickly fade away like a wax candle. In a larger metropolitan area, it may take a few years before they become indistinguishable.

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